I’ve always had a fascination with sexual pleasure gained from playfully switching from one’s natural submissive feminine self, where the man takes charge, to experimenting with one’s dominant side.  As a woman this is known as a Dominatrix. The Cambridge Dictionary definition is “a woman who has power or control over her partner in a sexual relationship”. Whereas the Oxford dictionary defines it as “ a woman who takes the dominating role in BDSM sexual activities”  Now this got me thinking and wanting to know more. 

The origin of the word Dominatrix appeared in the 16 century and comes from the Latin feminine of dominator, from dominat- ‘ruled’, from the verb dominari or to dominate.

There is something fascinating in this role reversal, the sheer tension, electric energy unleashed from seeing a man grovel at my feet and begging for more. As I pushed the barriers, the more pleasure my partner receives. A humorous interplay. It’s fascinating. And by switching between submissive and dominant both partners can experience the joys of this fascinating act.

BDSM is of course a big variety of kinky practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and others, not for everyone but plenty to go at. What I have learned working as a professional BDSM London Escort is that consent and safety are key for a healthy session. When practiced safely, it’s a unique exploration of the human erotic psyche.